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This article explores the ideas behind “Single On Purpose: Redefine Everything. Find Yourself First”, the 2021 book by licensed therapist John Kim. Written after Kim's own divorce, the book argues that the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. It looks at why people chase validation through partners, how to recognize and break old relationship patterns, how to grieve an ending honestly, and how to build a life around your own values. The message is not against relationships: whether you are single, dating or partnered, knowing yourself first makes every connection healthier.