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How to Be Enough

Ellen Hendriksen

What if everything you've been taught about proving your worth is wrong? This heartfelt and honest book invites you to take off the invisible mask you wear to be accepted, and instead discover that you are already enough—just as you are. Through gentle stories, relatable struggles, and powerful truths, it shows how to quiet your inner critic, let go of perfectionism, and reconnect with your real self. If you've ever felt like you're not good enough, this book offers not just comfort, but a path to healing, self-compassion, and real connection—with others, and most importantly, with yourself.

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fear / fɪr /noun

an unpleasant emotion caused by the perception of danger, real or imagined

It creates doubt, fear, and a constant need to prove your worth.

anxietydreadworry

pretend / prɪˈtɛnd /verb

To give the appearance of being or having, often deceptively

When we pretend, people don't get to know our true self.

feignsimulateaffect

judges / ˈdʒʌdʒ /verb

To form an opinion or evaluation of; assess

They judge my ability.

assessevaluateappraise

flaws / flɔːz /noun

A fault, defect, or imperfection

We believe that if we work hard enough to hide our flaws, people will approve of us.

blemishesimperfectionsfaults

doubt / daʊt /verb

to feel uncertain about : to waver in opinion or judgment : lack confidence

you may still doubt yourself

waverlack confidencequestion

concept of self-compassion / ˌselfkəmˈpæʃən /noun

Understanding and kindness toward oneself when facing personal shortcomings

Practicing self-compassion can improve mental well-being.

self-kindnessmindfulnesscommon humanity

begins / bɪˈɡɪnz /verb

to start

The class begins at 8am.

startcommenceinitiate

healing / ˈhiːlɪŋ /noun

The process of becoming sound or healthy again

Healing from the wound took several weeks.

recoverycure

worthy / ˈwɜːrði /adjective

having worth or value

She is worthy of respect.

valuabledeservingrespectable

rejected / rɪˈdʒekt /verb

to feel unworthy or not good enough

What if we feel rejected?

abandonedostracized

the author / ðə ˈɔːθər /noun

The writer

The author mentioned social anxiety.

writernovelistessayist

truly / ˈtruːli /adverb

In a genuine or sincere manner

You try to say what you think others want to hear instead of what you truly feel.

genuinelysincerelyhonestly

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